footdr..
i'm sorry to read you got banned, i know you must be feeling badly and missing your friends..it will be okay.. but a forum like that you'd be not surprise, when most of the comments are about persons and members not being heard correctly or able to post their complaints or grievances..
on this forum i noticed if you have problems with staff whether good or bad (i've never once saw a single legitimate complaint of any being rude or disrespectful) or problems with other members, you are allowed to post your opinion but without bashing, being an open forum we are all allowed to post our opinions sometimes it helps sometimes it doesn't, most are resolved if they are misunderstandings with an apology, so simple to do, thousands of people on the forum there are bound to be disagreements, misjudements,say things they don't really mean to say,sometimesit'sjust not known or seen until someone else points it out.. but the main thing is you are heard... if it gets heated and continues then it's the warning, even then i've seen leiniency as it's known members are important, given a few moments to gather yourself to realize mistakes or a mishap of thoughts and type, but Zuga and staff will not put up with any nastiness, that gets cleaned up real quick.. nevertheless we as a family all get together to help or correct whatever problem there might be