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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #15 on: April 22, 2012, 10:26:13 AM »
Of course u know this sending of nude pics goes both ways.  3 weeks ago one night my cell phone beeped so I received a text.  It was a picture of a pierced boob but no phone number attached to the text.  I just shook my head and deleted it.  The next day I received an email from my long time pogo friend Donna giving me all sorts of chit about not replying to her text. I emailed her back I didnt receive any text from her.  Well, guess whos boob it was.  Well, Donna thinks its so blasted funny to continue to send me pics of all her private body parts since i told her to stop it.  No, i wasnt using reverse psychology on her.  It made me realize why Donna got kicked out of my cyber life for 2 years. 

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #16 on: April 22, 2012, 12:20:27 PM »
That's sad Gunny.

If you don't want to receive the pics - can you not block her phone number on your phone?

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #17 on: April 22, 2012, 12:33:48 PM »
Blue she is a funny and nice friend.  Its just her way of her thinking shes messing with my head.  In other words she has a wierd sense of humor.

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #18 on: April 22, 2012, 12:44:42 PM »
Blue she is a funny and nice friend.  Its just her way of her thinking shes messing with my head.  In other words she has a wierd sense of humor.

Ah right - and is it working?

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #19 on: April 22, 2012, 03:19:13 PM »
I know what i said about nude photos and to set it straight..I dont think sending nude pictures is completely out of it, im sure theres certain circumstances, like maybe husband away from home missing his wife or a long time relationship, it's kinky and freaky and probably fun, but to send photos and then demand you send one carrying out consequences if you don't is just undecent..and thats the lightest word for it i could think of lol.. i still feel hurt and confused by it, like i got punished.. can't understand his intentions all along because i'm sure theres probably some woman that do it so easily..

these photos were i'll say it like this, there were no shadows, his bidness was all up in the street like unmistakable sunshine  *-*
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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #20 on: April 22, 2012, 03:26:30 PM »

these photos were i'll say it like this, there were no shadows, his bidness was all up in the street like unmistakable sunshine  *-*

lmaooooooooooooo bidness is just so darn fun to say LOL

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #21 on: April 22, 2012, 03:31:55 PM »
Lmmmmao Froggy... i know, i think i was teaching Blue about the word.. "bidness"
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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #22 on: April 22, 2012, 03:38:57 PM »
Lmmmmao Froggy... i know, i think i was teaching Blue about the word.. "bidness"

LOL LOL

I have never and will never forget about that time Imagin.  You made me howl and it still makes me chuckle even now when I think about it.

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #23 on: April 23, 2012, 05:01:07 AM »
I have been off the forum for a while so I just caught up with this thread from beginning to end... and I agree with what has been said already, but one thing came to my mind that was not mentioned...

You spent months talking to him and shared many things... he talked of his family and goings on and I would imagine that you shared similar things with him... so, my worry for you is that in all of that time sharing, is there anything that was said that would make him able to find you in person? You mentioned thinking of meeting him, so not sure what kind of physical distance there may be between you...

I don't know what his trip could be, but he has some major issues in the sexuality department and that he could find you in any way makes me worry for you imagin! Please think about that and make sure that you are safe!

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #24 on: April 23, 2012, 05:32:28 PM »
Thank you Katt for your concern, i was careful about my address or absolute whereabouts, he does have my phone number thats the only thing i worry about  but so far nothings happened, got some weird calls i never answered, but who knows if it was him.. and i agree he's got some kind of hang up...
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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #25 on: April 23, 2012, 08:10:11 PM »
That is good to hear. It puts me a bit more at ease for you. Keep being careful!

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #26 on: April 24, 2012, 11:07:38 PM »
Please tell us your phone is unlisted.  A person can pay online places to use reverse phone number.  This is where u enter the phone number and u can get all the info u want on that person.  Also, if a person has another persons email address the same thing can be done.  I had a major problem with a person in pogo and had this person's email address.  I paid $18 do an online company entered the email address and I found where the person lived, employment background and a few other things.  I didnt use the info for anything else.  I am not telling u to scare u i am just opening your eyes to any little info over the months u gave him.  Lastly, hi Katt, I hope u r doing well.

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #27 on: April 24, 2012, 11:40:04 PM »
Hey gunnylab! I am ok, hope you are the same!

Your advice to imagin is right on. With my former work with private investigators one of my main functions was finding people... people with real reasons to hide and not want to be found... The internet is a gold mine for doing that job... even without paying someone for the information.

A good reminder for all of us that the internet is not private!

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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #28 on: April 24, 2012, 11:51:38 PM »
Imagin.ation,

I'm very sorry that you were hurt by this individual.

My conclusion with respect to on-line dating is that it is, literally, a waste of time.  My opinion on the matter is that: if you meet someone on-line and you have a number of conversations with them which go very well, then you may decide you're going to meet them in person.  Alternatively, you can simply just go out and meet people in person!

That's the thing about the Internet, it slows down the entire relationship-forming process because there is a length of time that is devoted to reaching a point where, in person, the relationship-forming process first begins!  You have to put people through a certain vetting process on-line to determine whether or not you want to meet them in person when you meet people in person (or could) every day of your life!

The other problem with the Internet, thatyou experienced, is that it opens up the door to predatorial acts.  The people who will commit such acts are relegated to doing so via the Internet because they cannot accomplish their vile intentions when they start off in face-to-face relationships.  On some occasions, they give off too weird a, "Vibe," a vibe which you would certainly have picked up from this guy, in person.  In other cases, even a live interpersonal relationship starts off well-enough, but they then find it difficult to control their impulses for a long enough period of time to gain trust.

The advantage the Internet gives such people, whether you call it, "Working," or, "Grooming," a person, is that they can do so with multiple people at the same time, sometimes literally.  The advantages of this are that it is easier for such people to control their impulses, and just like pulling a slot machine handle for a jackpot, the more pulls you make, the greater chance you have to get lucky.  Imagine if he has similar dealings with five, ten, maybe even fifteen women at a time...eventually one of them will capitulate.

My advice is to always limit your trust of people you meet on-line, and keep the relationship-building process, in terms of romance, as organic as possible.  I do not mean to be melodramatic, but it may be that you simply avoided meeting a strange guy in person...or you may have narrowly avoided the missing persons report.

You can never be too careful.  Take care of yourself.

Respectfully Yours,
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Re: What WAS this?
« Reply #29 on: April 29, 2012, 10:11:09 PM »
Gunny and Katt, yes it is unlisted.. i do beleive he is very experienced at this and could possibly fnd out where i am, but he is in another country and i think he has other females more easily accessed, so i have that advantage, but all things said.. its hard to keep it out the mind.. i keep my guard up though and i stay leary of anything that seem strange around my house... so far everythings been okay, thank you both so much for all your concern and informative responses.. alot of things i didn't think about

Mission148... thank you for that information and response, much to put to mind about online dating.. i know theres both downfalls and advantages, and some can be the most powerful relationship you have ever had in your life, some can be fun and games, some are just plain kooks out there, of course hiding behind a computer it's your choice to let the animal out the cage,or simply be the kitty katt purr..   

the hardest part for me is to realize after all this time and all things said and done that either he is who he said he all was but has this hang-up a bout women.. or he lied about everything he did and is just a kook looking for some scoop online.. a thought i had..if sending the nude pictures to his wife or girlfriend would of given him wooos and aaahhs, sending them to me with his comment had me offended and spooked... i just don' get it one single bit...im almost possitive he knew better   so i wonder why..
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