What Really Attracts Men to Women..........

Guys are naturally drawn to physical beauty. But there is more to when it comes to hold on to your man!

Here are characteristics that are attractive to men:

Fun -  Women who are fun and aren't afraid to be silly now and again.

Confidence - A women that has confidence and takes good care of herself.

Independence - Having ambition and showing she can take care of herself and stand on her own two feet.

Strength - Can weather any storm and does not buckle under stress.

Vulnerability - A woman who isn't afraid to show her vulnerable side and can share what they are honestly and openly. This is not to be confused with the "damsel in distress" syndrome.

Femininity The ability to embrace your soft side and show your nurturing nature, sweetness and tender side.

Happiness - No one wants to be around someone who is always down and "woe is me". A general state of well being and are happy and upbeat most of the time.

What's your favorite attractive qualities in women?

Lips

I just wanted to say that I personally possess all of those qualities 

Lmaooooo now that's a girl with confidence!

            I need to be with someone I can hold an intelligent conversation with....seriously.    If she's really attractive too,  that's definitely a plus.

Agree with you Bongo, women has to be smart

Well, smart and beautiful, and no one will complain. Still, sense of humor is really high on my list...

I'm definetly looking for blonde, tall, hot women ( ), but the one i'm going to be with has to be smart and funny too. Doesn't matter if she's gorgeous if she's as "smart" as a mule.

                  Smart as a mule yes,  stubborn as one.....I hope not.

Stubbornness is not a desirable quality in my book:-)

The worst possible thing a girl can do is swear loads in my opinion especially the C word.. It is extremely off putting and unattractive

Oh agree with ya Dominic. The C is a bad one! Men who call women that are also off putting!

Is the C word, CLEAN? I hate it when they say that too.

@Feelin froggy, Yeah it is disgusting, I would never use that word anyway, towards anyone >.<

seeing if she well cook you diner ! ,plan out ask her if can pee in her butt!!!!

Just a little too much info bubz! 

By the immaturity of that reply bubz and comparing it to your other posts i can only assume a teenager or younger got a hold of your account and posted that.............going to give you a bit more credit that you are not responsible for that.

Nice bubz, nice.

For me its definitely femininity, both mental and physical.

I believe in these days when most women try to be equal with men on all fields, femininity is so rare and exotic quality to be found.

I am not so naïve that I don't believe men are visual creatures.  There has to be a physical attraction.  But where I get irritated is hearing a man talk bad about how a woman looks ( she's fat, old, ugly, etc...)  I got tired of hearing one of my fellow employees bashing a woman and turned to him and said "unless you're ripped, rich and hung you have no room to talk"  Humor is important.  My husband said he was attracted to my strength. 

hmm they need to be funny,caring,good at cooking(I can cook but it's great when she can too!),Has to be adventurous,if she likes football that is a big plus!!,ladylike but can have a laugh too,nice eyes def a plus oh and I don't like a stick thin lady she has to have a bit of curves about her! And they need to be cheeky too because I am !

I agree bigdk. I like a sense of humor myself. Gotta be funny

A pretty face and good attitude.

Attitude meaning that the woman is patient, understanding, honest, and whatever else that holds the two of you in common sync  .

Gotta have the pretty face, the man should be talking to her and looking at her face and not at the body majority of the time. lol.  You get what I mean? lol.  True. Unless this is a relationship that is not meant to meaningful then all of the above does not really matter.

........and what you just said is what attracts women to men! Well said!

I prefer the sensual woman, attractive, discreet and has confidence 

In general,it is most important for woman to be positive and fun.Somebody says once...if you can make her laugh,you can make her do anything you want

she has to have a cute face, a good sense of humor, be adventurous, and be able to know how to cook

And there are 12 qualities that a man is a perfect companion of a woman :

1- When he looks at you, you look really.
2-He is generous without being subject.
3- It is determined but patient.
4- It has ambitious dreams but keeps feet on the ground.
5- He knows how to cook.
6- It is physically active.
7- It is smart but not pretentious.
8- It has the remarkable ability to make you laugh and smile.
9- If he tells you he loves you but is not required, and that his actions prove it.
10- He is ready to fight back to preserve peace in the couple.
11- Whenever you need help, he is always there for you.
12- Without you, he is lost; you are now a part of him because he wants to capture a part of you.

Extract from an original text by Paul Hudson.

For me, the physical appearance is not the most important. We have to get along in the most important things of life. We must have common interests. And I'm not looking for models, Barbie. Ordinary girl is best girl. 

I also agree that her look is not decisive thing.Of course,her beauty is only good thing,but it is not important.I love normal girls,with nature look with whom you can talk about everything you want...

Physical appearance is important but not definitory in choosing  of a potential partner . Woman s are so complex...Mystery is so atractive..

And most women are so mysterious aren't they? Men likewise can be quite a mystery to figure out as well!

I agree with you about mystery.It is really attractive when you dont know what she really wants...Problem is in the fact that usually she does not know either