Blue and Slot i i copied and printed your stories i want her to read them, i want her to know she is not alone that it does happen, that his ill treatment is REAL and is NOT love, i want her to read the devastation and heartbreak she will spend her life in if she doesn't start seeing the truth these words here that Blue wrote are VERY powerful and straight out truth..
"Only the woman suffering has the power to stop this- they will not listen to you. They probably don't believe you (but "secretly" they know you are talking sense and it's true). Burying your head in the sand is a classic move when you don't really want to face the problem head on. The only way they will get to realise how badly they are being or have been treated is if another man that they find attractive treats them with respect and makes them feel like a human again"
To continue the story... well, she blamed the 16 yr old saying he told her it was her that initiated and persude HIM, that he wasn't at fault... and cussed me and her sister out for trying to explain what a pig she is in love with (we started with supporting her relationship as best we could but words blurted out we DO mean to say). We tried to tell her that a 16 yr old is immature and for some it is hard to say no, not that they want it, they just don't really know how to handle these types of situations, how easy and convenient for him... she thinks he is innocent and did no wrong..she beleives him.. what hurts too is the child is embarressed and hurt, scared that its her fault and they will seperate (she didn't do anything other then be a teenager) aaaahhh it makes me sick, IF that was the case being 26 yrs old, the child being a relative, there should of been NO OTHER kind of exchange what so ever between them.. like "thats a nice compliment but you're a little too young", find someone your age" SOMETHING.. anything else... i know that the MORE we try to convince her the more she will reject our advice BUT.. deep down somewhere she IS listening, with this she will have a little strength when the time comes and won't be such a surprise..
I just can't see her with him and what's happening, she is so blind, she's not even understanding the real term of "stand by your man" she's standing by a manipulative, controlling, lying PIG