I read that people who are trying to quit should try to sleep as much as possible the first few days.
     Don't know how true it is, but it sounds good to me.  Anything to get thru those first terrible days.
     I myself can never make it thru the third day.  That is always my breaking point.

                                                                                  PMM

Hey PMM, I think that your friend my act that way, for one of many reasons, either beacuse she cares and her intentions are good. Or maybe she thinks that by saying those things, or sending you pictures, that you might realize she is right and that you really SHOULD quit. Maybe she figures if she can do it, then so can you given the right persuasion. OR, maybe now that she doesn't smoke anymore...you guys really DO STINK, from what I hear from my friends and family I smell like smoke all the time...I don't notice it, but everyone else sure does.....And one more theroy....maybe you guys smoking around her is making her want to cave so she lashes out, I do hear it is really hard to quit smoking when you are around people who do......I think you should talk to her and get the reason from her directly, and then let her know how her comments make you feel!!!

Here is the deal.  People point at people smoking who themselves are downing gallons of icecream.  People point at people downing gallons of icecream who themselves are shop-a-holics.  People point at shop-a-holics who themselves are smoking three packs a day.  It's a wild cycle.  And the reason I am a libertarian.  This is why the good Lord said not to worry about the splinter in your neighbor's eye when you may have a log in your own.

Nalgenie.......if we are honest, I would say that would be true for us all!  We all do our fair share of putting a bit of FUN into disFUNctional!

DisFUNctional.............and if u drop the "N" that's what happens when you things don't go quite our way!!