hey slot junkie.....not trying to defend the man, but sounds to me like he's not a staight out liar....the way you describe it, it sounds like he was telling the truth, but when things didn't follow through, he didn't man up and confess...which of course can be a very hard thing for a man to do....BUT....even if this were the case,[ i could be wrong, and maybe he does just lie about everything] I don't think she should marry him, simply because he doesn't trust in her enough to tell her what happened...I know if I were working and
lost my job, my man would be the first one to know, even though I know he wouldn't he happy, but you need to be honest and open with the person your sharing your life with....and if they truley love you them they'll stick by your side no matter what!!